โ„น๏ธ FAQ & S - Personal Edition

This page is my personal FAQ & S. Frequently asked questions, and statements made throughout my life.
๐Ÿงช This page is part of social experiment.
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What is your take on No-code?

I have many answers on no-code over at nayamoss.com/work/faqs

Why do you take long to answer messages?

In general, I follow asynchronous communication in both my work and personal life.

I created a chart at nayamoss.com/contact where you can see how often I communicate on various communication methods. I.e. text message, IG, etc.

Also in general, I am not big on texting.

Ok, but to finally answer the question. Either I

  • haven't checked my messages on the platform you messaged me on
  • I have seen your message but perhaps need to think a bit more before responding

Hope this was helpful โœŒ๐Ÿพ

What do you do for work?

I talk more about my work over at nayamoss.com/work/faq

Where have you been?

Around ๐Ÿ™‚.

How many countries have you traveled to?

19

Why donโ€™t you lose weight?

Why is it your business? ๐Ÿง

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I enjoy myself in ANY size. As long as my health is ok.

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I also know, I am fabulous at any weight...

Where are your parents? Are they alive?

Yes. ๐Ÿ™‚

Why aren't you married?

Because I am enjoying myself, and having my own space, not having to keep anyone else in mind in my choices.

Always subject to change whenever I feel like it ๐Ÿ˜‹.

Do you think you are better or smarter than other people because you work in Tech?

NOPE! The world has this misconception that you need to be very intelligent to work in any Stanfield including tech.

I find this a bit outrageous thinking anyone can learn technical skills if they work and try hard enough.

I also don't believe that the smartest people in the world work in tech or technical roles. Firstly some of the smartest people I know are mailmen, psychologists, clerks, etc.

Do you think you are better than other people because you are American?

Absolutely NOT! And I'm not too fond of this mentality. It saddens me. I don't think any country, person, nationality, etc., is better than the other because of "whatever reason."

I know many Americans and the world has this ideology that America is the "greatest country in the world." I don't subscribe to that.

I believe every country has its good, bad, ugly, and beautiful flaws

What is your take on how to approach "personal security and privacy"?

I get this question frequently! It can be easy to go down the security and privacy rabbit hole and to move out of fear.

To avoid this, I always recommend creating a Personal Threat Model.

A good start is to write down what is important to you and what data you want to protect.

I'll write a blog post on this sometime in 2022, so check nayamoss.com/blog.

How old are you?

Where can I find you on social media?

Why did you stop posting on Instagram?

I actually disconnected from ALL social media. Except for Twitter for 1.5 and almost 2 years.

I can "narrow" it down to...

  • Security reasons
  • Privacy reasons
  • Shifting focus for my business
  • I noticed the negativity it caused in IRL relationships

I can probably write 20 points.

Update:
I wrote a short atomic essay on it here.

Why can't I submit a question to this page?

You can, over at nayamoss.com/contact, and choose faq on the form.

Why can't I submit a question to your personal faq?

Questions on this page are questions I get asked very frequently.

Most are questions I get asked frequently in person that I am tired of answering. ๐Ÿ˜‚

Questions I get asked a lot, that I don't mind answering typically don't make it to this page.

๐Ÿ‘ฉ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’ป Work - Frequently asked questions
๐ŸŒ Personal - Frequently asked questions
Frequently made statements

This area includes real life statements people have said to me over the past 6-10 years.

If I sent you a link to the section, it likely because you have either

  • said one these statements
  • said something similar
  • denied the experience of Black people, minorities, and or women and my experiences in particular
  • or I don't feel we can have a productive conversation about my life experiences

Statements:

  • You are [redacted age], maybe you are married not by choice but because there is something wrong with you
  • Maybe you will learn how to speak [insert language] if you tried harder and didn't speak like that.
  • You are American, what possible problems could you have
  • No one cares about you, if you were going to commit suicide, you should have just done it
  • Black people should just work hard like to rest of us
  • Maybe Black people experience racism because they donโ€™t know how to listen to authority
  • ADHD is a term Americans use to cover up that a person is crazy
  • People who stutter are cursed by god
  • People who stutter are crazy
  • No Man will ever want a woman who is fat
  • Why bother to learn [x] language, youโ€™ll never be able to speak properly anyway
  • If you canโ€™t speak properly, you should just stay quiet

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